against all sane advice, i did go ahead and marry my addict and except for our 2 kids together, it has taken me 21 yrs to figure out that marrying was one of the biggest mistakes i've ever made. for me, marriage, rehab or being there for him did nothing but nearly drove me insane. relapse and rehab is part of a cycle for my ah. i've been seperated awhile now and as far as i know, nothing has changed for him maybe other than new enablers.
someone told me long ago to listen to that still small voice of the heart. god speaks to the heart and the devil speaks to the head. maybe once you think deeply about what your gut is saying, you maybe able to answer your own question. still the choice is yours. imo, recovery has to become a life style.
Last edited by teke; 09-01-2009 at 07:39 AM.