hes got to want to come off on is own. u cant do it for him. if u try to push he will push u away. nothing can come between a person and drugs. i know from experience. i pushed my boyfriend away but he wanted me anyway so he let me do my thing. i eventually came off bymyself. i was scared he wouldnt want me when i wasnt high but he does. the person he knew was always high 24/7 and it scared me. just hang in there. hes got to be the one to come off.....