Old 09-01-2009, 04:34 AM
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breakingfree88
learning to live for me
 
Join Date: Mar 2009
Location: East Coast, US
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Originally Posted by damnedone View Post
... I'll always be there for him as a friend, and even if it doesnt matter alot to him, I'd be heartless and hate myself if I just sent him to hell.
~D.
The thing is, sometimes as codies we can get "cocky" in thinking that the lack of our presence would send someone to hell. I've discovered that people can live without me, and when wrapped up in addiction, often never notice I am gone. They may say differently, but they don't miss us. They miss anything we did to enable them, and since it doesn't sound like you've enabled your friend too much through the internet, when he tells you to f*ck off I would take his word for it. You won't send HIM to hell...you'll get yourself OUT.

Also...do you just talk to him online or have you video-chatted with him? Social networking sites such as facebook can allow people to save a variety of photos of a person to create a false identity....but if you've seen him online its pretty safe to say he atleast looks like who he says he is. Just wondering.
I hope you have a great day today and keep us updated.
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