i am 24 and was far from being engaged or married to my ex but i once paid for tickets to cuba for us and literally days before i found out he had cheated lied ect... i made the mistake of falling for the lies believeing he loved me and would change.. took him on the trip and the wknd we got home BAM he dumped me cuz he just wanted to "drink with his friends"... i know this is a totally different situation but THINK about if you go through with all this and in a week.. a month.. ect you DIVORCE??? then what? how much WORSE would that be? taking time to make sure something is the right decision for you and your fiance is going to be for the best in the long run i promise...
