Good on ya man!! I have been there too many times to count. Even make it to the store and look at the liquor. I would stand there a little while until I calmed down and then ask myself if it is worth it? Hmmmm....nope comes to mind. As far as the 14 yr old mentality, that cracks me up because my daughter is that age. Look on the bright side, when they are 14 there is really very little that either parent or child can relate to. We can relate now because we have something in common, we are emotionally equal!! LOL
Roy
Hang in there, you are doing great!!!