trish...
take what you want, and leave the rest,
and someday...
you may want the rest...
its also about a little thing called service...
giving of yourself...
and in your case,
maybe find an attitude-guard with some Duct Tape to tag along!
wishing you all the openmindedness, and the best trish...
hey, maybe someday,
you may start a group in your area?