Thanks everyone....that next day things got laid on the line for him. Me and his Sisters had a talk with him. I was so happy that he would put us first.
Everything was great for hmmmmm 6days then he came up with this toothache out of the blue...he knew the Dentist would give him pain pills. He got those and started right back up. I had a feeling he would smooze me like he smoozed them.
This is his last strike and then I am afraid he is going to have to leave. My kids come well first and I am sick of someone being so selfish. I cannot even get myself food for lunch at work while he can take all the money he wants for his "TREATS" and cigarettes OH and red bull because the pills make him sleepy.
I just have to repeat this to myself and work out a plan and he is gone!