Hi Jason,
I just wanted to tell you that I agree that "love her and never leave her" may not be the way to go in a situation like this. When you have a relationship with an active addict you have no choice but to be impacted negatively by their choices. And sometimes leaving is the only option. Doesn't mean you have to stop loving, by the way, but sometimes that needs to be done from a safe distance where you can at least take care of your own emotional needs, and those of your children. Remember to love them - and yourself - enough to take them out of harm's way when necessary, as hard as that may be.
Mostly I just wanted to say I empathize with you, Jason, and am sorry to read all you're going through with this difficult situation. Painful. My thoughts and good wishes are with you.
Lisa