We love to hunt ducks here in Mississippi.
In doing so we like to use the saying.."we have gone through a lot of trouble getting those duck to come into our water hole....lets make sure none of them leave"
So as for the newcomer...we have done a lot of work keeping the doors open, building a fellowship, fighting internal and external forces, developing lit. ect...lets make darn sure our behavior does not cause them to run away from us to the arms of active addicition.
JC