I am not convinced either, but I am still hoping for the best for YOU, trainwreck, no matter what kind of person she decides to be. I don't see a revelation here either - I see an addict who now sees that her allies are becoming fewer and farther between, and is reacting accordingly, saying what she knows you want to hear. If that means she will embrace recovery, and a year from now she is still saying those nice things, that would be a blessing for her. If not, well, see "your side of the street" above. Your happiness is not dependent on her
But what wonderful kids. Made me smile to learn of their "evil genius plan," taking action on behalf of their own happiness. I wish I'd been so brave when I was that age.