Thanks everyone to answer some of the questions, yes I am employed and make more money than him.
We have three kids together, he is getting more and more mean to our 12 year old son, when he sticks up for me.
I do not find this acceptable; I just don't know what to do.
I told his Sisters today and they want to confront him tomorrow; meaning it will make things even harder on me. His one Sister wants me to move into a hotel for a few days. I don't want to take my kids out of their home.
I thought telling them would make things better it seems to have made things worse right now. My Sister-in-Law has the mortgage on our house; after we almost lost it from his first time. She is now telling me she will sell it because she is worried we will not make the mortgage which we have never been late on, since she held the mortgage.