hi, welcome. sorry you had to, but so glad you found us. you are not alone here. we all either have addicted loved ones or IS the addicted loved one.i'm a ra married but seperated from ah of 23yrs. i do understand how you feel and have been where you are right now. what you described is common addictive behavior. YOU ARE NOT TO BLAME FOR HIS PILL ADDICTION. and there is nothing you can do or don't do to fix it or make him stop, he has to want it for himself.
i agree with the other, do what you have to do to protect your finances and any thing you don't want pawn or sold for drugs. its a hard life, but you can choose to not allow his addiction to take you down with him. you are reaching out for help so i'd say you are making progress even if you may not see how much yet. i'll keep you and your family in my prayers.