Hi Clay. Best advice off the top of my head (bearing in mind that it's fast approaching 3am here and I'm kind of tired, heh)- is to keep your mind occupied. I know that you're a really intelligent guy (many times I have thought this after reading your posts, especially to faerie), so probably reading a book/article/journal/whatever is cool; do you have many friends? How about meeting up with them over a coffee and just catching up with wjhat their doing?
The obvious answer would be... 'Just get onto the Boards here at SR and read and respond' but of course that would be too obvious.
Another thing is that sex isn't always the be-all-and-end-all that many believe it to be. In fact, I had to wait a while, a long while, before it happened for me, because of the way I was brought up/my former faith/being a shy, nervous type (due to bullying at school,etc..).
Sorry I couldn't be more help. Take care
pete