hi nunyabiz and welcome to sr.1 day @ a time made a valid point that concerns my esh,,,when i went to AA this time i did everything completely opposite to what i wanted,thought expected etc.in other words i stopped fighting.i stopped doing things how i saw fit.instead i went to lots of meetings in allsorts of weather,got buses,rang round for lifts,made several phone calls a day to fellow AAers.then i got a sponsor and im working the 12steps.my life has changed beyond recognition in a very short while.there is not enough hours in the day! i also volunteer for the red cross,i give my time willingly.i undersatnd that AA is not for everyone but just a little of my journey for you.i wish you well with your sobriety and congrats on your sober time.