Why do you examine your sober life for things you do while drinking?
Seems to me if drinking is not important and troubles come when your drinking it may be a good idea to quit drinking as smacked suggested for at least a month and see if you start doing those things when not drinking.
It just could be that your drinking is what the root cause of the probelm is.
Why not take this little quiz answering honestly and see if you find an answer there
Alcoholics Anonymous : Is A.A. For You?