hi hotcheeto-
glad to hear you are going no contact. i agree, block his phone number or change yours.
i read all his texts he sent you...that's all just crazy manipulation...he's coming over, he's not, it's all your fault, blah blah blah
the reality is that it is quite impossible to have an honest relationship with an active alcoholic. it's all nuts. you and your new boyfriend? your new boyfriend that doesn't exist except in his head?
really, aren't you tired of being accused of false things? i know i was. i deserve someone who appreciates my loyalty and trustworthyness.
you can plan on his desperate pleas to continue for some time, i would imagine. be strong and let it play out, hopefully without you getting drawn back in.
i told mine to call me when he was 30 days sober. he made it 29 days and started drinking again. or maybe he only made it 25 days and started drinking again. or maybe he drank the whole time and lied and hid it. i don't know, i'm not the booze police.