well it is because of the financial situation i just got laid off from one job and hanging unto my other job, but its not like i can afford 4000 right now,,but i think ill wait til closer to the time and then decide..i am to the point that im hoping he screws up enough to get picked up for something.....the way i see it,,he is not looking out for my well being so i shouldnt care what happens to him either...but yes its more of the finacial strain than anything..if thier was no bond i would just say forget it..i wouldnt bother seeing who he is calling or whatever because i really dont care right now, other than if he skips town,,,