I was in rehab for 2 months. My roomate there was/is from Manhattan, and gay. Grew up catholic and had some series issues with the whole higher power thing. We would talk alot about it.
I've talked to him a few times since rehab... He has a few AA meetings in the city that he really likes... There are one or two meetings around here that are listed as gay, or GLBT...
Whatever you do, you can do anything, except drink. Be happy.
Mark