Originally Posted by
outtolunch 
Are you rationalizing his abuse?
For crying out loud, the guy was in jail for 29 days for domestic violence against you and here is is, back in your home, high as a kite.
Is this acceptable to you? Is the sobriety fairy going to descend and make it all better?
I don't know you, but I do know you deserve to treat yourself better than you are doing.
I'm not rationalizing the abuse....I'm just thinking that if he could kick the habit, then he won't be abusive anymore either. I love him to death...I don't want to lose him.
I think I just want him to be better more than he wants it.