hi, i agree with live, sorry this is happing though. hate to say it but sounds like he's not ready to quit and there is nothing you can do to change him. i'm more concerned about your safety. i do believe what they say "if he physically attack you once, he'll do it again". hope thats not true for you but i suggest you think long and hard about whether or not you want to take that chance.
i took the chance and today, i'm declared disabled. i believe my injuries stemmed from a drug induced attacked by my ah. i've pressed charges many times and each time he was released, i heard the "i love yous", the i learned my lesson and won't do it agains", well you know the rest, and each time, the attacks would be worse than the time before.
you deserve so much more and until he seeks help with his issues, i suggest you turn your focus on to yourself and let him do the same. i will keep you in my prayers