Hey HotCheeto welcome to SR. I, like you, am new to this site and find with every post I read and write I am little by little getting stronger. I love the caring nature of the members who helped me very quickly realise I am not alone. If you go into my profile and read my first post (from two days ago) you will see I was very like you. The one thing I am thankful for was my xabf was never verbally or physically abusive or agressive. The book mentioned above - Codependent No More seems to be a Bible on this website. I have bought it myself (yesterday) and am off work next week so am taking it away to do a little bit of work on myself. Anyway I felt the need to post to let you know, just as someone let me know a couple of days ago, you are not alone, you are among friends, and together we will all help each other through this. Good luck XXX
