Can you control others? Can you change what they are doing? If the answer to those questions is no then why not just accept them for what ever they are or seem to be and just move on. My life is so much easier when I just accept what I can not change, it was not easy at first, I spent so many years trying to control all the people and things around me and when I failed at that I would get bent out of shape, either I was mad at them or I was viewing myself as a failure for not being able to control or change people around me to suit my needs.