Originally Posted by
Impurrfect 
You, on the other hand, inspire me in how you focus on YOUR recovery, no matter what she does.
I cannot tell you how much this means, coming from you.
The most powerful words I have read in this forum and, no surprise, they come from recovering addicts, are "
she/he is not done, yet."
It puts the whole thing ( relapse/recovery/relapse cycle) into perspective, for me.
It's not my decision. It's not designed to hurt/please me.
It's not about me.