I am a drinker. I enjoy a really good ale or wine with dinner.
My wife is an addict/alcoholic...with a recent third relapse in 12 years together.
Having alcohol in our house is not an option anymore. I am fine with that. In fact, I'm ok if I never have another drink.
Others may find that they can drink around their alcoholics. I will not. It hasn't turned out well in the past.