What a ride Winnie! It's now over - take the time and RIP that he's where he needs to be. Spend some quality, UNSTRESSFUL time with your dd and pamper yourselves. You've been through a war, it's time to heal those wounds! You've been a trooper and handled yourself with grace through it all. I'm so glad for your family, especially your ds because he'll be getting the help that he needs instead of being locked up with the key thrown away. Hugs to you!