(((Winnie)))
It seems like a million years ago that you first heard of this ranch and thought it would be a good idea for him to go there, doesn't it? I know you certainly never intended to go on a continuous roller-coaster ride in getting him there.
I'm glad he is on his way and you now KNOW where he is going. I, too, pray he takes advantage of it, though I have an idea he may resist it at first. Why? Just because..he's a boy, a teenager, and an addict
Now's the time to take those deep breaths and start the process of accepting that you and dd can relax...something you two haven't done in a very long time. AS is far enough away that it's not a matter of "dropping by to see him", so how about focusing on what you and dd want to do for a while? He's being taken care of and I'm sure you will still be hearing from him and able to contact him when you're ready.
Sending you lots and lots of love, hugs and prayers!
Amy