Oh, just thought of one more thing. Whether she loves you or not, and whether she wants to build a life with you or not, she may not be able to give you the kind of relationship you want. These things really have nothing to do with one another. Believe me, she already hates herself enough and bringing this up time and again only points out to her how much of a "loser" she already feels she is. Just one more thing she can't handle.