GiveLove

TrainWreck,

Sending you hugs to get through the next few hours. Like you, I am a pretty rational, linear thinker, and I find it very hard to be in suspense. You want to know if she wants to build a life with you -- that's a huge thing to be hanging out there, waiting for someone else's response. Just wanted to acknowledge that and send you my support....I'm glad you have a therapy appt today. It always helped me.

Remember too that if you choose to separate for your own mental health right now, she is still walking this earth and you are still walking this earth, and there is nothing keeping you from exploring a relationship at some other point in your lives, when perhaps you're both in a better, more stable place emotionally. This is not the end of the world; this is just doing the "next right thing" for yourself.

Hugs,
GL