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Stop enabling him.. you'll love him to death, do not involve yourself in his addiction, it is his own, and he's perfectly capable and has every right to make horrible decisions.
how exactly does one define "enabling"? providing any help at all? putting up with ANY crap at all? i mean, in my situation i'm sure i've gone totally overboard with the enabling and put up with way too much crap, but at what point does caring about someone become enabling?