I had to bow out of three invites tonight... one included a large yacht, 5 course meal & all of the booze any alcoholic could drink.
I spent some quality time with my father instead, he even said how great of a day he had when we were saying good bye.
You can always plan a wonderful straight evening with your friend with all of the money that you would have spent on your Vegas trip (just the two of you).
I am a guy but hey... I will give this a shot:
Massage for two at a nice spa
Manicure & pedicure
Visit a hair salon (style & cut)
Dinner for 2 at a really nice restaurant (sparkling water & all :-)
Chick flick at a local theater
Movie wrap up at a local coffee house (girl chat included)
This will be a night you will both cherish & remember for the rest of your life, far more than any Vegas bachelorette party... I promise.
You can hear about all of the silly/stupid things they did & how wasted they got when you have dinner with your friend (and know you didnt really miss anything).
All of the best with whatever you choose, I know its tough.
P.S. If you tell her about your drinking & that you are trying to stay sober she will understand... make sure you include your backup plan as well ;-)
Take Care,
NB