kj is right. I'm a recovering opiate/cocaine addict, 9 months clean. Obviously my husband and family wanted me to quit...and had I quit when they wanted me to, I'd have years of clean time...not months. My husband threatened to leave me constantly. I didn't care...it wasn't those threats that made me quit. Bottom line, I was going to die if I didn't quit. So I surrendered and checked into rehab. Best gift that I ever gave myself.
He can't quit for you...it's got to be for himself, otherwise it won't stick.
Penny