I would greatly appreciate if you would talk to him. The negative affects are already starting to really get to him. His memory is shot. His thought capacity is much lower. He speaks much much slower. He loses his breath much faster. H-ll....the sex life was affected..is affected.
He really doesn't think clear anymore. He's willing to let us lose our relationship because he knows that it bothers me that he smokes weed still. That just makes me so sad...