Great post freebird. I'm not sure I would be so strong if that happened to me. I guess maybe at a year it would be different.
Josie,
Why did you cave? Because you only were remembering the good times you two had together. You pushed the bad times out of your head, and lost track of the reason you left the first time. It's a learning experience and you shouldn't beat yourself up over it. God knows I'm doing wrong things right now. Next time he asks you back, remember this moment over all others.