Part of the problem I have with "turning it over" is that not all my 'problems' can be 'turned over' as they are my responsibility alone. Such as dk (youngest daughter) making irresponsible choices and my having to 'come to her rescue' over her poor judgement. How do I turn my worry over her behavior over to my HP when I will be called upon to "fix things" when she's acted foolishly?
I feel like I need a 'bolt of lightning' to get me out of this worrying cycle.