I didn't offer this to be controversial. In fact I had no idea there was any controversy in what I was offering up.
I know that sweetie and I am sure most others do too.
I think the reason it 'raises hackles' on some folks is because they have seen as I have that 'newbies' and yes some in 'recovery of sorts' use it as an EXCUSE to not have to take responsibility for their actions.
This is an EXCELLENT thread.
Love and hugs,