This is a tough one for me. I have a hard time admitting defeat in anything. I always play to win, or do not play at all. I am a sore loser, so in that respect I have a hard time accepting defeat, admitting, may be different.
The thought of getting into a physical altercation always scares me, because I know that one of us will not be getting up. I don't know when to give up. In terms of my alcohol and drug use I feel I can admit defeat, but I don't know if I'm to the point of accepting it yet.