Hi,
Yes I've heard from him. He calls me (usually collect) to whine/complain/blame others and ask for money. I haven't given him any. I am reaching that point where I don't even pick up the telephone anymore because I don't want to refuse his call.
He called last night and I was in no mood. He was very shocked when I said, get into a program, I don't want to talk anymore. Goodnight.
You can only let yourself get smacked in the face so many times before you wonder --what's wrong with me. It doesn't mean I don't hope,care and love him. But my life and health are important.
Thanks for asking and thanks to all for their care, best wishes and prayers.