Hi Kitty, I have a similar situation, since my ABF of over 14years started counseling (or before) he started what he says is a non "sexual relationship" with a much younger female, I am not so sure its platonic or moral support, I have been worrying myself sick over it and I have come to the conclusion that I do have to trust God to guide me thru this whole thing....its so hard because lies sound like truth and truth sounds like lies sometimes.............Just believe in him and know that you did answer your own question.