Hello there mattcake, and welcome to our corner of recovery
Originally Posted by
mattcake79 
...Right now, I'm at a loss.. I don't know how or where to begin this new chapter of my journey. For the time being, I'm allowing myself to relax, and to take each day as it comes. I don't want to coast, though..
Have you tried meetings of al-anon? They do a _lot_ of ACoA work there and have great literature. That's where I do my ACoA recovery nowadays and it works great for me. That's also a good place to get referals to a therapist. Everybody in al-anon has either a therapist, or a lawyer
Welcome again.
Mike