Hurting Dad,
sorry to hear this. Both of you are in my thoughts and prayer. I agree, your son is not the same person who went into treatment. HE has the tools he needs in his hands now. Let's have a little faith in him.
Try not to completely cut him off. At least make him comfortable enough to contact you so you are not so worried.
Sending good thoughts your way................:praying
PS> my son is still clean, loving life and really loving his job. Looking @ him yesterday, seeing his body filling out again, and of course, that beautiful smile, makes this long journey of addiction all worth while.
My hope for you is to bring you some of this peace.....Remember it is attainable
Susan:ghug