Originally Posted by
concernedgf 
But on the other hand I love him so much and I know what he is capable of. I wish he thought as highly of himself as I do of him.
Welcome to SR. Please stay and read as much as you can. It helps alot with everything you are trying to deal with.
When I read your post this particular line you wrote stood out. Took awhile but I found a link that you can read about their "potential".
This sent up a red flag for me and just want you to be careful where you tread with your bf. It sounds to me like he is doing alot of quacking and trying to make you feel guilty. That might not be the case but that is what I hear.....
Good luck stick around you will need people to lean on...
http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...potential.html