Originally Posted by
concernedgf 
Thanks. Quick responses. Not gonna lie, hard to hear.
"Love him to death," that was hard to hear. But needed, thank you.
So if i used the word "support" instead of "Help" would i hear anything different?
How do i be there and listen to him and have a relationship with him without involving myself in the addiction? Im a smart girl. and i dont find myself in situations i cant handle often. I really dont know how to approach this.
Maybe the (another hard to hear thing
) answer to that question is, you don't.
Hard? Of course.. Impossible, no way. Nothing you do can get him sober. It doesn't even sound like he wants to be sober.. and it's his choice to live that way. It's your choice to live that way with him, or to decide that you want a better life.