Maybe you and your husband need to be together in this thing recovery. My wife, who we still have many serious issues between us,would never ask me to get her a beer. She does not drink around me, through her choice, not mine, and we do not keep alcohol in the house. If she wants a drink its her responsibilty to get it. If family or friends come over it is their resonsibilty to BYOB and serve themselves. Sobriety needs to be as I said, a partnership.
“from craving arises sorrow and from craving arises fear”. In our sorrow and fear comes our pain. When we try to medicate or numb our pain chemically, we become addicted. When we try to smother it in the comfort of our family and friends we smother the love of family and friends. What are we to do? To whom or what can we turn? Who can you turn too?