Originally Posted by
LaTeeDa 
Here's a challenge for you. Take one hour of your day and do something for yourself that has nothing to do with him. Do not think about him at all. Focus on you and only you. One hour. Can you do that?
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Back?
Now do it again
When I was going through something similar my sponsor gave me "busy work"
The best I ever heard was a woman who when her sponsees called with their "stuff" she said, OK, I want you to walk to a meeting (she'd pick one miles away) and say listen to the speaker, then walk home, and call me and tell me about it.
4 hours later she'd get a call "What now?" they'd ask
"walk to another meeting"
it worked