Originally Posted by
whereami 
Can a forum advisor or monitor delete the post with my daughters name in it above ...stupid on my part Thanks
Done.
I agree with getting a legal opinion on this one. However, it appears that this has made you very uncomfortable and if it would give you comfort to return it, then by all means do that.
My thoughts are to consider it a gift from a grandparent to a grandchild and buy your daughter something she needs with it.
Hugs