My AA group is having a picnic on the 4th.
Members bring their families so everyone
can get acquainted. Pherps your wife would be
more relaxed about meetings if she met others.
Please see if that is something the Va. group is planning.
If not...ask her to attend an Open Meeting with you
then maybe a dinner later?
She is likely nervous about your new lifestyles to be.
Welcome to our recovery community
Blessings to you and your wife