Hi blessed!!
Perhaps create a new email account (so you can read your usual one without the stress of knowing there may be an email of STBXAH)
(((((((note to self: ok I just noticed I have used "AH" as "Alcoholic" and it really means "Alcoholic Husand".. sorryyyy))))))))
Then ask STBXAH to communicate via emails to
[email protected], THEN have the person in your life closest to LTD, GiveLove, Ago, etc. to check that email often (in exchange for some homemade pancakes or something) and tell you the only important things regarding children.
I think that would be the best way for you to be protected
Ok I have never been married, but now I know what to do if I get divorced thanks to SR!
Blessed, how do you take those frustrations out? exercise? journal? hitting the bed with a tennis racket? (that's what my mom did during her divorce)
:You_Rule_
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PS Oh I just read your STBX lives in the Dark ages. But well perhaps the idea helps someone else in a simlar situation...