My AH went to rehab for 30 days-he sent himself there. He is drinking again and at times going to AA...he has been out of rehab for 2 1/2 months. So that was my only experience with life after rehab.
I have to agree with everyone's advice. To focus on you. I remember the first time someone said, after I told them that AH had relapsed after rehab, she said..."What do you want?" So spend the time while she is gone working on yourself and what you want for you. I wish I had done that more.