I posted about PAWS in this forum and it is in a sticky in the alcoholism section. Givelove told me that at this stage they are "stark raving sober". Pretend you are living with someone who is insane, Jeckyl and Hyde, or has multiple personality disorder....whatever you have to do to understand that whatever they say is transient and something contrary to it, or total lack of memory of saying it will follow.
90 days into it, I am still dealing with my pinball of a husband, and NOT having to live in the same house with him is a blessing at this time.
My heart goes out to you, hang in there. On the Getting them sober sight they call these guys "King Baby" HA!