I too am a open book... But I have been hurt from information I have shared. My SABF really made me feel a lot of shame over my past...
I confronted him about being in active SA and thought that we needed to detox from the situation and take a good look at the relationship.
I'm in some real pain but I'm praying that I can keep the strength to do what I know in my heart is the healthiest thing for me.... I'm at my friend's home now and I think being here for a few weeks will be helpful...